_________________________________________________________________ VOLUME 5, ISSUE 1 PSYCHNEWS INTERNATIONAL July 2000 -- AN ONLINE PUBLICATION -- _________________________________________________________________ SECTION B: GUEST EDITORIAL JUST AS LONG AS THEY SPELL MY NUMBER RIGHT Joseph E. Trimble, Ph.D. Let me share with you a little story, some observations about a few things that are affecting our lives right now, and a suggestion for you to consider in the years that wait for you. When I was a young child, about 50 years or so years ago, I spent many of my weekends and much of my summer vacation at my grandparent's farmhouse. Located way out in the country and surrounded by open, grassy fields, the home provided me with wonderful experiences and left me with fond memories. Let me share one of those memories with you. At the time, my grandparents did not have a telephone nor did any other home in the local community. In fact, the only telephone in the country setting was located on the wall next to the front doors right inside Pop Horn's General Store. Pop Horn's store was the village centerpiece, as all community activity seemed to occur there. The store had everything that anyone needed and if it did not old Pop Horn would find it for you. Everything imaginable -- at least in the eyes of a ten-year old boy --was piled from the ceiling to the floor and crammed on shelves separated by four narrow aisles. It was our mall as it was the only place for youngsters and everyone else for that matter to gather, meet, talk, and visit. The elders were always there sitting on the front porch greeting everyone as they walked up from the dusty road onto the wooden porch. We always felt welcomed there. Occasionally, I used the telephone to call some of my childhood friends who were fortunate enough to have telephones in their home. To make a call I had to stand on a small stool to reach the old wooden telephone. It was a crank-up type -- the kind where you had to lift the hearing piece off its hook, turn the handle rapidly a few times, and then speak loudly into a separate black mouthpiece. After I would crank up the telephone my Aunt Millie, the sole village operator, would come on the line and asked for the number I wanted to call. One day I remember asking her to connect me with 354 and she said, "Well, Joseph, that's the Campbell house and if you're trying to get hold of Willie, he's not home today as the family went over to the Bordeaux house for a visit. Do you want me to call over there?" I asked her if she would please do that. Minutes later I was talking to Willie and Aunt Millie no doubt listened in as she always did when she was not busy connecting folks to other telephones. Aunt Millie was the eyes, ears, and conscience of the village. She heard just about everything that went on over the telephone lines and hence most folks were very careful with the content of their conversations. We all knew she listened in. She was a very kind, generous woman and everyone in the village respected her and liked her. In addition, we all knew that she was related to everyone in some form or another so we had to mind our manners when we were around her. Aunt Millie passed away many years ago. In some ways, her passing symbolically signaled the end of a user-friendly telephone system. Along with the passing of the old system, an end came to the friendly, helpful voice on the other end of the telephone. Aunt Millie's friendly voice now has been replaced with digitized sounds configured to sound like a human voice-- it does not work for me! Instead of dialing up names and numbers, we now dial in strings of numbers. If we make credit card calls, we could punch in as many as 40 separate numbers. Now many of us know what happens when we finally reach the number and no one answers. We are electronically directed to another voice that tells us to pay attention to yet another list of numbers. We then hear something like the following from an emotionally flat voice: press 1 for this and that, or press 2 for something else, or press 3 for another feature and the number of options goes on until we decide what to do. Usually, after we decide what to do, we are asked to press another number on the touch-tone pad to make sure we did what we thought we wanted to do. Occasionally we make phone calls to obtain directory assistance, order something from a mail order catalog, or request assistance concerning some problem with our computers. After punching in a series of numbers, we hear a digitized voice asking us yet again for more numbers. Our patience is tested as we are asked to select from an array of numerical combinations and punch in what we hope is the right sequence of numbers. Sometimes the voice will ask us for the numerical code on the back of the catalog -- our names will not do as they just want the number code outlined in "light blue." Then following that we are asked to provide them with our postal code -- all of the numbers, please, and then the voice asks us if we live in Bellingham, Washington. Of course I do, all the while wondering what would have happen if I gave the voice the wrong number sequence. Often, another digitized voice will come on line and inform us that the call may be monitored for quality assurance. Now Aunt Millie would love that line. Once the voice asked me what my number was then corrected itself by saying, "Oops, I apologize as I really meant to ask you for your name." After providing my name, the voice said that my name's number was so- and-so. Often when calling someone we are routed to voice mail and we hear another voice indicating that so-and-so is busy so please leave a message. Have you ever noticed? Every time you return the calls on your answering machine, you get an answering machine. Not too long ago, when we called someone we received a busy signal and we knew what that meant or no one answered and we knew what that meant, too. Pretty simple. With all of the numbers swirling about concerning our personal lives, I sure hope they spell my number correctly and I would hope that is the case for you, too. Indeed, we now live in world of "number clutter" where it seems that every piece of personal information has been digitized and carefully organized to fit a numerical sequence. The emergence of "number cluttering" can be directly laid at the feet of the mushrooming, ever-present computer industry. In fact, the entire telecommunications industry is totally dependent on numbers -- digital mania surrounds us, consumes, and directs most of our daily lives. About a month ago, I boarded a flight in Seattle en route to Washington, DC, a trip I make several times a year. After the big Boeing 757 took off through the rain clouds I observed some- thing I hadn't seen before and I believe it's connected to "number creep" and "digital mania." No sooner had the flight attendant announced that it was OK to turn on laptop computers I noticed that almost everyone around me reached under their seats for their small computers and almost in unison I heard a caco- phony of beeps and the corresponding clicking and chirping of keyboard sounds. The man next to me grabbed the airphone from the middle seat, plugged it into his computer, and in an instant was connected to his office. He looked at me with a sheepish grin and said that he wouldn't dare go anywhere without his lap- top, printer, fax machine, cellular telephone, and pager, all of which were proudly displayed on his tray table. "I'm connected to the world," he said with a smirk. I nodded and wondered if he had a family or close friends and if the only thing they talked about was their electronic gadgets. When the plane leveled off, I decided to stroll down the aisle and count the number of passengers who were engrossed in their laptops - much to my amazement most were. The growing obsession with the computer and numbers is not restricted to airline passengers. I know several close colleagues who get out of bed at about 5:00 AM, fix themselves a strong cup of one of Seattle's many coffee blends, and then spend the next two to three hours in front of the blinking eye on the computer screen. Then they dress and drive to their other office on campus and spend most of the day in front of their office computers. Then they drive home and after dinner they settle in front of the screen again and continue whatever it was they doing earlier in the day. Moreover, they tell me they do this seven days a week. The computer industry and some of my social science colleagues have been examining computer use practices at home and in the office. I am told that the typical worker now works 48 hours a week in the office. Many workers also report that they spend considerable time at home working on their computers so the 48-hour week is likely considerably longer. The data suggest that what was once a 9 to 5 economy has expanded to 24 - 7 -- 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. Quitting time seemingly does not exist anymore. When business and industry close up their doors at 5:00 pm we now can go home, log on, and spend as much time as we want "on the computer" as just about everything is seemingly available to us through the Internet. We can even log on to "chat rooms" and discuss all sorts of topics with folks from the Four Corners of the planet. Apart from what is called "Internet wait" and the limits of modem speeds, we have almost instantaneous access to people, places and things. An "office" is anywhere you want it to be as long as there is access to a telephone connection or a satellite. For those wedded to the use of pagers, cellular telephones, and computers, life has become considerably more complex and engaging. Everyone seems to be busy, too, and I am reasonably certain that the telecommunication industry is partially responsible for it. I have noticed that when I ask someone on campus or in the halls "How are you doing these days?" instead of saying something like "fine" or "fair to midland," or "not too well, today" colleagues and friends now quickly say "I'm really busy." Sometimes I'll hear colleagues say to others, "I'm busy, too." We are busy, as the reply to such questions seems to suggest that one is so busy that they do not have the time to stop and chat. Until recently I rarely heard someone complain about having too much to do in their daily lives and using that as an excuse to run back to their office to spend more time in front of their computers. I can understand some of what is going on. Before the advent of email, I received about 12 or so long distance calls a day now I probably receive 2 or 3 a week. Actually, I am more involved in national and international professional affairs then I was ten years ago so I could expect to receive more calls. My telephone calls now have been replaced with email messages and I get about 100 or so of them a day and a good half of the messages ask for something or other and the sender wants an answer immediately. Many of them just have to wait. Not too long ago many North Americans were preoccupied with "keeping up with the Jones's" and now we must keep up with the Ishiwaras, Kims, McAlesters, Brochauses, Guerreros, Yangs, Milicics, Luigis, and Amundsons fueled by our need to keep up with the pace of the computer and telecommunication industries. The pace has picked up in recent years and many people are not real certain what their boundaries are as some actually push themselves to fatigue. Not too long ago one of my colleagues was found fast asleep at 6:00 AM in his office with his face resting on the keyboard. His nose was resting on the "L" key and his computer screen was printing out an endless stream of "L's." As many more people worldwide become immersed in the computer world and their communication tools they are unwittingly cutting themselves off from physical contact with others including friends and family. Sitting in front of the screen is a solitary experience. Many simply do not want to have any one around to annoy or disturb them. "Can't you see I'm on the computer so leave me alone right now" is becoming a common household and office phrase. I am deeply concerned about this development, as I believe it does not promote healthy relationships with one's friends, colleagues, partners, spouses, and family members. There appears to be a "disconnect" going on in our relationships with others. For almost 30 years, I have been interested in psycho- logical well-being and how it influences the choices we make in our lives. Much of my work has been dedicated to the choices we make that negatively affect our sense of well-being and our health. Some of my colleagues recently made a startling discovery concerning the importance and influence of personal relationships and well-being. In a series of carefully controlled studies they found that the mental and physical health of certain individuals was substantially improved by merely having someone physically around to talk to. In fact, the researchers found that the mere presence of others can actually improve the body's immune system. Moreover, they found that laughter alone played a major role in regulating the body's metabolism. I know that it is tempting to be consumed by the many advantages provided by computers and all of their attachments. They are indeed the wonders of the decade and they serve a very useful service. Nonetheless, I want to leave you with this suggestion. Set aside some time during the day to actually physically visit with friends and colleagues to laugh, discuss world events, tell stories, or you could even talk about how much rain we get in the Pacific Northwest of the United States. In addition, when you do, please leave your pager and cellular phone somewhere else and turn off your computer. The messages will be there when you return. Joseph E. Trimble, Ph.D., is professor at the Center for Cross-Cultural Research and the Department of Psychology of Western Washington University. He is also current president of the Society for the Psychological Study of Ethnic Minority Issues, Division 45 of the American Psychological Association. In September 2000, he will begin an appointment as a fellow at Harvard University, Radcliffe Institute for Advanced Study. Email: trimble@cc.wwu.edu (after 15 September 2000: trimble@radcliffe.edu) _________________________________________________________________